Jealousy. Panic. Self-doubt. Welcome to your open relationship.

You thought you were ready. But now your stomach drops every time they leave.
This workshop helps you stop spiraling and start feeling safe again.

đź’ˇWhat we're building

A self-paced course for people in poly pain

  • Tools to calm jealousy and nervous system meltdowns

  • Scripts, reframes & somatic strategies — not vague advice

  • Built to help you feel secure, not ashamed

  • ⏳ 8 hours of video — yours forever

  • 🎯 Beta launch: You shape it

  • đź’¸ $29 early bird / refund guarantee

đź’” You Might Be Here If...

Jealousy is eating you alive

You didn’t think it’d be this bad. You feel triggered, insecure, and a little ashamed.

Your partner's dates feel like abandonment

You know they love you — and it still feels like you're being left behind.

You want to be better, but don't know how

Books and Reddit aren't cutting it. You need something grounded, kind, and real.

You're scared you're not built for this

You’re wondering if non-monogamy just isn’t for you — or if you’re just missing the tools.

What You’ll Learn

Why You Feel Like This

Jealousy. Panic. Shame. It’s not failure — it’s your nervous system doing its job. Learn how non-monogamy activates fight, flight, freeze, or fawn — and why you’re not broken for feeling this way.

What’s Actually Going On

Unpack the real story beneath the spiral: self-comparison, fear of being replaced, grief for what used to be. Shift from “What’s wrong with me?” to “Oh… that makes sense.”

How to Regulate Without Gaslighting Yourself

Grounding tools that actually work — not fluffy, not dismissive. Learn how to stay connected to yourself (and your partner.s) even when the storm hits.

🎙️ Meet the Creators

Quincy Schmidt

Certified relationship coach (PCC - ICF) with 8 years of polyamory experience.He’s helped dozens of clients navigate the emotional chaos of opening up.

Marianne Perreault

Writer and systems thinker with a background in UX and psychology.She’s been in poly relationships for 2 years and knows how disorienting the early stages can be.

Together, we’re not promising perfection — we’re offering support, tools, and emotional literacy from people who’ve lived the chaos and done the work.

Early Bird Access

$29

  • Full course access, forever

  • Early input privileges

  • $29 one-time price

  • 100% refund guarantee

Waitlist Only

Free

  • Updates only

🔍 FAQs

Is the course done yet?

Not yet — but it's fully mapped out. Your preorder helps us build what matters most.

What if I don’t like it?

We’ll refund you. No guilt. No shame.

When will I get access?

We’re aiming to release the first module in fall 2025.

What if I’m not out to anyone yet?

This is built to be private, self-paced, and pressure-free.

If you're tired of guessing, hurting, and holding it all in — this is for you.

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